Which finding. What is the dollar effect. Over what period. How was it calculated.
Ask all four, every time, before you respond to anything. A buyer who comes back after their investigation asking for a lower number is doing one of two things: pricing something they found, or testing whether you will move because you have nowhere else to be. Both arrive in the same tone, usually a reasonable one, and those four questions are what separate them.
What the answers tell you
A real finding answers all four, because a real finding has math behind it. This contract expires in nine months, the revenue on it is this much, here is the exposure.
A lever answers in adjectives. It talks about comfort, risk profile, and what their investment committee is seeing, and it never quite lands on a number you can check.
Both outcomes are useful, which is why the question is worth asking even when you suspect the answer. If they can show the math, the conversation is now about a number, and a number can be argued down, split, or restructured. If they cannot, you have learned the request was not really about the finding, and that calls for a different response entirely.
Either way you now know which conversation you are in, which you did not know before you asked.
A finding does not have to come out of price
This is the most useful idea in the whole negotiation, and most owners arrive without it.
When a buyer quantifies a problem, they have told you the size of something. They have not told you where it has to come from. There are four places, and price is only the first.
Price. The headline comes down. Permanent, immediate, and the only one of the four that costs you the full amount with certainty.
Where the money sits. Part of the price is held back and released when the thing either happens or does not. A contract everybody is worried about gets a holdback that releases on renewal. If the worry was unfounded, you are paid in full, late.
Who carries the risk. The problem stays yours if it materializes and nobody’s if it does not, which is what an indemnity does. There is also an insurance market for a good part of this exposure in deals of reasonable size, which changes who is actually bearing it.
When it is paid. The amount stays whole and the timing moves. Less useful than it sounds, and worth recognizing when it is offered to you as a concession.
An owner who only knows about the first one negotiates every finding as a discount. An owner who knows all four can accept that the buyer’s concern is legitimate, decline to pay for it in cash, and still close.
The common mistake, stated plainly
Conceding a price reduction to settle something that has not yet happened and might not.
If the dispute is about a risk rather than a fact, the answer is a structure, not a number.
What making them show the math is worth
Illustrative. An owner built a third-party logistics business over seventeen years and took it to market at eighteen million dollars. The investigation ran clean until the buyer’s team read her contract file and found that two accounts, together a little under a quarter of gross profit, sat on agreements expiring inside a year with no renewal commitment in writing.
The buyer asked for one and a half million dollars off the price.
Her advisor asked the four questions. The answer, once written down, assumed both accounts were lost in full and immediately. That was not the exposure. The exposure was the gross profit on two accounts for the months genuinely at risk, against a book with a retention record she could document across seventeen years, including both of those accounts through two prior renewals each.
They settled it with a holdback on a piece of the price, released on each account renewing. Both renewed inside six months. She was paid the full eighteen million dollars, six months later on part of it, and the buyer got what they had actually asked for, which was not to pay for two accounts that might walk.
What made that available was not toughness. It was making the buyer put the number on paper, where it could be compared to something.
Three rules for every concession
Never move without knowing what it is worth to them. A term you would hand over for nothing may be the one thing they came for. Until you know which, every concession is priced at zero by the person receiving it.
If you yield, ask. Not reciprocity as etiquette; reciprocity as information. What they ask for in return tells you what they are still short of.
Compromise only on things that matter. Conceding something the other side does not want is not generosity. It is noise, and it spends the goodwill you will need on the term actually in dispute.
And set aside the negotiating theater. The flinch, the visible shock, the long silence deployed on purpose. Everybody in the conversation has read the same material, nobody is persuaded, and a seller performing reluctance is a seller who has stopped being credible at the moment credibility is the asset.
What you say is priced
That is the whole rule, and it is worth more than any technique.
You are not obliged to explain your reasoning, state your floor, describe what the proceeds are for, or say out loud which of the terms you care about least. A buyer learns what you can bear by watching what you answer.
What getting it wrong costs
This is the single most expensive conversation in the sale, and the one owners prepare for least.
They prepare for the price negotiation, which happened months earlier and which they think they won. They do not prepare for the conversation where a number they already banked gets reopened by somebody holding facts they gathered themselves, on a clock the owner agreed to, with no other buyer in the room.
An owner who answers by conceding looks reasonable and pays in cash. An owner who answers by refusing to engage with a legitimate finding loses the deal and keeps nothing. The ones who hold the price do neither: they make the buyer show the math, accept the findings that survive it, and pay for those in the currency that costs them least.
More on this: What It Costs to Have Only One Buyer.
This is what we do. Prism Edge asks the four questions on your behalf, prices the answer in all four currencies rather than only in price, and settles findings as they surface instead of letting them stack into one conversation in week eleven. A problem resolved in week three is a problem. The same problem produced alongside four others is a repricing.
The full chapter on the negotiation is in The Business Sale, free to download here.
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